July 03, 2010

Mine was a typical arranged marriage. I got evidences that her mom used to teach her to control her hubby & manipulate! She was a damn liar & manipulator despite being a doctor!! I had to prove that i loved her & provided everything whereas she kept on putting false allegations on me & my family. We stayed together only for 4 months..............even after that i was made to suffer a lot of mental cruelty by her family. I was a virgin when i married her at the age of 33.And took well care of hers but her family was greedy & hypocrite, for their greed they ruined her life & mine too :(. But one thing is there i.e. my conscience, i can still talk with God matching eye-2-eye & my soul feels light b'coz my deeds were good. Only regret is my life is ruined with no fault of mine (certifiedly). Now, i'm very alone....looking for friends. Sometimes i do feel suicidal as this loneliness is killing me & all my friends are already settled except me. My life's so monotonous, i just go to office & come back. I desperately need good friends to share my Joy/Sorrow. I do hope that God will definitely bless me :)

Dev Sharma
New Delhi, India, Delhi, India

June 09, 2010

i married a divorced man for 2 years now..he got 2 kids from his previous marriage. every time mother's day, his ex-wife's birthday, christmas or any other occasion comes which requires a gift, my husband gives money for his kids to buy something for his ex-wife or he will buy a gift to give to her. he says its for the kids! the fact that the ex-wife doesn't bother to give anything to give it to him on father's day nor his birthday. i think its just him.. we always argue about this and i know he still have feelings for her. i believe this issue will grow bigger if he keeps on defending the kids about this matter, we will end up the same thing!

anne
winchester, va

June 08, 2010

I've been separated from my ex-husband for 2 months and got divorced about 2 and a half weeks ago. He never gave me a good reason, just said he wanted the divorce. He told me that we were going in separate directions. There must have been a mouse in his pocket cause I was going where ever he went. I want him back soooooooooo bad, but he wont text me, answer my phone calls or anything. He has completely cut off all communication with me when all i want to do is work this out! I need to get him back, but how!?!? If I ignore him, he wont talk to me, if I try to talk to him and work it out he wont talk to me! WHAT DO I DO!!!!???? By the way, I'm LDS and when Mormon people get married they get married by law and they get sealed in the temple together for eternity. So we've gotten the civil divorce, but we haven't had a temple cancellation, which you have to get authorized by the prophet, which is EXTREMELY HARD cause he is the BIG cheese of the LDS Church! So I'm kinda glad in a way because I'm still technically married to him in the spiritual sense, but I know that my ex will want to take that away too. It's a lose/lose situation. (sigh)

Brit
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April 30, 2010

I was just wondering if anyone had any suggestions as to how to ease the pain of the divorce for my 4 year old son. He only crys for him when he doesn't get something he wants, but it still hurts to hear him cry for him. I don't currently let him see him because he told me it was a waste of 5 years of his life to be with me and that even Landon wasn't worth it. So visitation for the time being is a no go. Any suggestions?

Amanda
Shirley, Arkansas

March 22, 2010

I met a guy from Germany last month and he´s getting divorced this month (after the 1 year process in Germany. We´re together for a few days, then I have to travel and he needed to go back to Germany aslo to close the divorce issue, now he says that he´s in love with me, wants to marry and have a child aslo move to Brazil. Well, I dont know what to think about his behavior, I like him....but this sounds crazy to decide to have a new family in another country with someone you dont even know her parents....I´m bit afraid. Is that normal that a guy would do something like that for real?

Paula
Rio de Janeiro, Rio de Janeiro

February 25, 2010

I have been married for about 6 months when my marriage was over. The shocking part is that my ex-husband got married in September the following year. Now he is divorced with a bonus of HIV/AIDS which he did not have while we were married as we tested regularly and we were both negative. He came back several times and tried to come and sleep with me unti lI got a restraining order against him. Like everyone I am glad I am over the anguish of a restless marriage made up of lies, fights and deceit. One thing that kept me strong is my family's support, love and believing in love even in troubled times. I am now free, older, wiser and have healed and let go of the burden I carried while I was within the marriage. So no situation is forever, especially the bad experiences they all pass. Keep on loving and you will find the one who is made for you one day! To the gentleman who feels he needs a woman. I agree you cannot live life alone but you do not have to put up with an abusive situation or someone who hurts you for their own fulfilment. Just hang in there one day you will meet the one who is meant for you, the one who will treat you like a prince. If you need to talk I am willing you have my support!

Happi
SA, Johannesburg

December 30, 2009

well m sure every 1 wud b goin thru it.. how sudnly ur v close frends change n even ur closest relations 2. dey cumpletely fail t undestand wat it ist bear d pain of a unsucesful relatinship..

Reet
Darjeeling, W.B.

December 21, 2009

i've just separated from my husband for about 3months. i didn't want the separation but he wants it. this is what he said to me when he left me "this is good for my parents and myself" just like that... without having second thought. i hv known him for 12years, next month will be our 2nd year anniversary. i know he has asked for a change but i havent given it to him, but i also want something that he cant give me. nevermind, i dont mind, all i want is to make him happy being his wife. i still love him, i want to save my marriage, what should i do? my mother in law asked me to divorce his son, my parents in law talked to my parents (my parents in law came to my house when I went out with my husband). I am now living apart from my husband, we are living in 2 different countries now. I am now staying with my parents. my husband has sent all my belonging to me. i want to get back to my husband, but i'm not afford to do it, cos he has moved to his sister's place, and i cant afford to live alone due to financial problem. i gave up my job, my family, my friends and married him, and followed him to a new country to start all over again 2 years ago, and i m now lost everything in including him. i m so hopeless. guys, can you help me please, what should i do to get him back to me when his parents and his sibblings encourage him to divorce me?

liz
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November 04, 2009

I have been dating my girlfriend for 19 months. We fell in Love about 1 month into the relationship and have been doing great. We like any couple have had our ups and downs. The biggest down for me is her Catholic Guilt! We made love for the longest time and she refused to go to communion. So suddenly one day she gets very down and says she no longer wants to make love so she can go to communion. I love her so much that no matter how anguished it made me feel; I agreed. Well several nights later we both could no longer stand doing nothing and decided to meet half way, and only go so far. This has been working for us up till last night when the guilt trip started again. What really bothered me about this is she was talking about going back to making love again on her birthday just 1 night before. This is very confusing and frustrating for me. We're both divorced, cannot have children, and have been together for 19 months. We both agree that we cannot get married for quite some time due to kids and it being too soon. I don't know what to do; I firmly believe that making love is a wonderful natural behavior for us. Were both mature; it's not a one night stand, or lust. I love her so much but this is a real challenge for me. Here on off again love making is very frustrating and confusing me. Help!

Don
Bay City, Michigan

October 31, 2009

can someone please help me with this one, i was married for almost 9yrs, we had our ups & downs but i thought we would be together forever, until one night my husband said that he doesn't love me like a man should love his wife, i couldn't believe it, he told me that he hadn't loved me for sometime & that he didn't want to tell me until he knew that i would be ok, well we decided that i would stay at our house until i got some money put up for myself, he told me that he didn't want to fight & try to get along, but the next day he had called me everything under the sun &just wasn't very nice to me at all, why would he tell me that he didn't want to fight that he cared enough that he wanted to make sure i was on my feet before i moved out, can anyone please help me out with this one, TKS> Michelle

Michelle Gallant
Moncton, New brunswick